The Powerful Slut

A Woman's powerhouse is her sexuality/sensuality.  Her capacity to be embodied in this form is a gift.  You can blame and shame this aspect all you want and nothing will change.  If the male stops blaming the female aspect for all of his woes and takes responsibility for his own lack of consciousness then he might actually see his reflection through her.  His pain and fear of heartache, his fear of wanting so badly he would need to give of himself fully, the fear of change, fear of facing death.  Blame Blame Blame, Control Control Control.  The same feminine essence that is in that Slut is the same that is in the massive Hurricane, a baby being birthed, a weed bursting forth in between sidewalk cracks… uncontrollable.  How ever long it takes, how ever many games you will play she can never ever be controlled.  The very essence you seek is also being repressed by calling women promiscuous, sluts, lude. 
I grew up in a religious household where it was improper to be a slut, to dress a certain way, to act sexual, to even be sexual.  Just because men are unpracticed in the art of sexual control does not mean women need to repress their innate sensuality.  The truth is, men, you want the peace from offloading your energy whether it be through fucking or a cold beer.  That stillness of nothingness.  Whether that delicious Slut is there or not is indifferent at that point of awareness.  Your desire remains to empty yourself into a space of nothingness.  Surely you can do better than shaming or controlling a woman's innate gift.
What does the Slut want?  Love.  She craves to be penetrated through love–completely illuminated through conscious love.  To be opened completely, ravished, surrender to the Divine.  On the mundane physical level this might look like fucking for hours and hours unleashing layers and layers of opening.  On an energetic level this might look like an ocean of love penetrating all of her darkest corners into love.  She craves the deep inner strength of a man combined with love and presence.  

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