Polarities: Allowing The Feminine in you to Shine

Why is it that you are attracted to some people and not others?  Some people just have a magnetic pull with you that is so exciting and some people feel neutral like friends and others actually feel repulsive.  Each of us has a sexual energy that is constantly emitting a signal, kind of like a radio frequency.  At times this signal is stronger and at other times more subdued.  The “feminine” sexual energy which can be in any body, holds the receptive, surrender, flow, creative, cooperative, watery, acceptance of what is, yin essence.  The “masculine” sexual energy which can be in any body, holds steady as a mountain, takes action, is giving, fiery, competitive, yang essence.  Deep down everyone that holds the feminine sexual energy wants to be penetrated in love, deeply surrendering and just finally let go.  In the story of today we have been taught that in order to be a strong and powerful female you must be like a man: take action, be competitive, don’t give up!  This can be very useful at times of course and it is very depleting for the feminine.  Feminine energy people hold the great power of pulling things to themselves instead of pushing.  The strength of feeling so deeply the world is profound and alive.  To surrender and trust the flow of life.  We as females have been pushed off course believing that a man’s way is right for us.  Believing we must push on through, fight our way up, don’t trust your feelings, do not show your vulnerability. Women are “drying up” and the juice of life is stale, flat, and exhausted.  I know, I have done and been all of these things.  Pushing instead of allowing, getting angry instead of just letting go, even competing with myself to prove my worth instead of co-creating with life.  It’s exhausting and there is another way.  It is normal and absolutely worthwhile to take time, go with the flow, play, create for the pure pleasure of creating, feel so deeply you cry and laugh simultaneously, learn to pull things towards you, surrender and open to life.  As you allow your feminine energy to rejuvenate daily the masculine energy people will be drawn towards you like a magnet. They will hold doors for you, be of service to you, assist you and help protect you.  The masculine energy craves to give and be needed.  It is a beautiful symbiotic flow that can happen between the poles.  This magnetism can also be used for attracting the masculine sexual partner you truly crave.  If you are currently attracting more feminine partners this most likely means you are more in your masculine essence.  Just keep practicing surrender, surrender, surrender and see what happens.  Open to the loving juiciness of life.